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Resetting Expectations

Posted on 05/11/202205/11/2022 by Andrew Bejma

I’ve had a frustrating couple of days. It is not at all coincidental that it lines up with my shot day. I’ve learned that I can adjust my expectations and things will be fine. I’m not at all worried about the fact that the trip hasn’t gone at all like I’d planned so far. I heard something on a podcast once about having an idea or general structure of a plan, but not down to the detail. If I tried to do that, I would not be sitting at a Cracker Barrel in Council Bluffs, IA writing this.

<< As I re-read that paragraph I am horrified that every sentence begins with I and want so badly to go back and edit to make it sound like better writing >>

At this point, I’m just going to make bullet points of shit that’s happening and bugging me, strap in.

  • Constantly shifting things in my car
    • I did not pack correctly for this kind of trip and how I would need to access my things.
    • However, the needs of the trip have changed.
  • Not having all of my clothes/personal things in one spot
  • The cooler needs to be shifted to the car successfully
    • Issue: Needs 12V charge, can’t be run off splitter, it keeps falling out.
    • Since it’s an electric cooler, if I can’t solve the above issue, I need to use dry ice, so it won’t melt into the cooler
  • The trip has turned into more of a getting from place to place instead of enjoying nature and writing in this blog.
    • If I don’t want that to continue, I need to make a change.
    • Camping is fucking expensive, yo!
    • It’s also time consuming and I never just sit and relax, which is why I don’t feel like I’m getting the aforementioned experience.
    • I can camp in an even smaller profile than the tent. I just need two trees at a decent distance and I can set up a whole sleep shelter situation much quicker than the tent.
    • I need to be ready to either hammock camp at a campground or convert the car to a sleeping situation (with minimal effort and/or set steps)

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This was left abandoned yesterday, as the rest of the day was filled with trying to reorganize the car

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